Hello again..

It was on this day that I lost you 8 years ago, while i was out on a run. Somehow, something inside of me told me I didn't feel like completing my late evening run that day, shortening my run and returning home. I came home to an anxious dad, already on a bicycle, all ready to comb the Simei premises in search of me, to tell me about the dreaded news about you. The news that would turn my world around and change everything that I once had in my life.

8 years on.. Here i am again, replaying the scenes of that fateful day. I was seemingly much better and 'the day' wasnt going to get to me. Not today. I was busy at work.. it was probably a good thing, helping me to keep my mind off thinking about the past.

As the evening closed in on me after work.. i suddenly felt a sense of lost. That feeling was creeping in. I broke down.

I wasnt as strong as I thought i was or would be. I hadn't been able to put the past behind me, like I had thought that I would. It wasn't as easy as it seemed. It was about you. You and I.

I miss you loads.. I still do. You may be at the back of my mind on most days.. But you will always hold a special place in one corner of my heart.

I love you.

Signing Off,

Love, Debbie

Chin up - nipple up - navel up

Hello,
Went to visit you as usual this year but didn't make a post here.
Figured no need to as paying respect is personal stuff.

Your silly sister gave me a call, asking me did I post the nipple-up post.

Guess she didn't knew nipple-up was during JC first year. Since then, between you and me, we are competing until navel-up.
Yes I also remembered during army days, we talked about doing chin up with SBO, then FBO.

Recently I saw a video/gif about different kinds of chin up.
If we saw it earlier like we are in JC or Uni or if you are still around and we  are I am still fit, we may attempt them as well.

Sometimes I wonder how life will be different if you are still around, Surely there will be more laughter and more gathering as you always been the center and life of the groups.

Take care.

YY

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Yo it's been 8years since that night when I receive the terrible news... I bet you are still challenging the Angels with your "nipple- ups" now. While you enjoy the serenity and peace, do keep a look out for your loved ones... N don't you dare laugh at my belly!!! Till we meet again my old friend