A part of me resisted writing this entry; like Ash, the reality does not fully sink in. Being overseas, I gather news through TC and other GIP friends as well as this tribute site. Somehow, sometimes I can still believe that Eu Jin is somewhere else on another part of the World. Writing this entry is to come to terms with your leaving.
For the past week I kept thinking about those times we had during GIP. We first met at Sea-tac airport when you came to welcome us; you helped me carry my luggage when I was having a bad motion sickness. As times went by, you are not only a helpful guy, but also someone we all grew to love and respect. I remember how you jogged back to Acacia beside me when I was too slow to catch up with Ash and others. Whenever I have problem or just feeling bored, you welcome me to drop by “Café 505”, where there’s free “special” drinks and great listening ears. One can chat about just anything with you since you never take sides when issues arise. You also helped me understand why things happen in a certain way, not by preaching or talking about profound theories, but simply in your own way.
Those trips we had…. NY with Ash, TC and Brandon… our first Broadway musical, those Popeye fried chicken you loved to eat (even though we had it like every dinner there), and Victoria trip with Ash, Shao, Kenny, Sarah, TC and others. It never fails to amuse me how you try to take pics with “Yandao” look and using “special angles” to make yourself look cool. Now looking back, I truly miss all the day-to-day life we all had: cooking dinner together… eating your special fried fish and onion rings and fries… the MaMa noodles (I bought you a pack in the US this time round)… you and Ash “suan-ing” each other… jogging to gas-work park, those groceries trip, the late-night movies and popping pop corn, you showing me the dragonboat pics which you are so proud of (as well as asking me which dragonboat guy is the most “shuai4”) etc.
Though I’ve never told you this, but I have always been impressed by your passion for life, for dragonboat, your devotion and love towards Debby (even before we actually met her), the way you strive for excellence because you just want to be better each time, and the care and respect you show towards others. It is no wonder many people describe you as a true/born leader and a great friend.
It was only a while ago when we all met up before we flew, and you later on telling me over msn that you want to do a MBA. Just the day before the accident you were commenting that you’re glad it’s a holiday in the US. I wish I had talked with you longer…
It is very saddening to read about what Debby and Eu Jin’s family is going through now. I wish there’s something which can relieve their pain even a little. At the same time what others wrote about Eu Jin is consoling—he is one great guy who holds a special place in his friends’ life.
- GY-
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